Wednesday, February 8, 2012

On the Front Porch

I stood on the front porch with Marie France this morning, talking about a baby brought to Maison by his birth mom.
I asked why she hadn't breastfed him, and she said her milk was bad and the doctor told her not to do it, that it would hurt the baby.  So after three days, she stopped trying because the doctor said so.    Now, five months later, she wants to leave him with us.  She can't afford to buy formula, and has been feeding him mashed up crackers soaked in some kind of corn milk mixture.  He's tiny.  Tiny arms, tiny legs, tiny dirty fingernails.  He was released from a hospital, where they said she should bring him to us.  So she did.  He's sick, with what we aren't sure.
As Marie France and I continued to talk, she said, 'But he's sick.  When they come here sick, that causes problems.'  Without missing a beat, and in quasi-Creole, I said, 'Wi, men Jezi pa veni pou moun ki pa malad.  Li te veni pou moun ki malad.' (Yes, but Jesus didn't come for people who are not sick, he came for people who are sick.)
Marie France knows this better than most people, and she loves these kids with a passion unlike any other.  Yet, taking in another little one that is already ill in some way or malnourished is a huge risk.  We've seen it with Rudy and Sondy.  But we've also seen it with Sherlande, Jean Marc, Stheloy and Stellee, and so many others nursed to health and thriving by caring women.  I said, 'If we don't take the sick ones, why are we here?'
I know things need to be done so that mothers don't have to give up their children.  I know that.  It broke my heart to see him pat his momma's face.  I can tell he loves his momma, and she loves him.  She doesn't have what she needs to do it.  Looking at that sweet little face today, I also know we have to do what we can to take care of these littlest ones.  Thanks for being part of that with us.

2 comments:

Learning to please God with my life! said...

So Angie, what can be done to help families like this stay together? Is there an organization that you know of that works to help keep families together? It breaks my heart that parents have no option but to give their children up. The link that you posted from red letter Christians, really struck a chord with me, and I am wondering what can we do to help in Haiti. Who can I turn to to find out how to help? Please email me with any information: joanna46760@yahoo.com Thank you so much for all that you do at the orphanage! You are so amazing!

npj15 said...

How thankful our we are for the way that you love each of the children who are brought to Maison by parents who love them dearly yet do not have the resources to meet their children's basic needs. I know the problems are complex, & the roots of crippling poverty in Haiti desperately need to be addressed in rectified, but I believe wholeheartedly that the work you do is part of God's redemption. So very grateful for the stories of struggling children nursed back to health. I think Sherlande could be your poster child in this respect! Love you, Angie. So grateful you are on the mend! N